[Updated: 9-14-2026]
UNSOLICITED FRIEND REQUESTS WILL BE IMMEDIATELY BLOCKED.
My bio is long. I know. Just trying to give you a chance to gauge if I’m what you’re looking for before you end up disappointed or waste either of our time.
Firstly, I am a jaded and pretentious bitch. If you think you can handle me, reconsider, then reconsider again, and if you read my bio in full and truly believe you’re the kind of person I may be looking for, do message me. But please know, I am not an easy woman. I do not fuck strangers, I do not “trade pics” or sext, I am very passionate about BDSM, and I will be able to tell if you’re vanilla and trying to deceive me about it.
I am very much so a switch. A sadist, and a masochist. A rigger, and a rope bunny. A little, and a Mommy Domme. A pet, and an Owner. I am extremely versatile. Despite this, I find it is much easier for me to get on with submissives rather than Dominants. I am incredibly picky about those I choose to submit to. Your looks, your assertiveness, your sadism, will not entice me to submit. In a Dom, I seek genuine wisdom and understanding, strong aspirations and self awareness, a desire to nurture and guide. Qualities that I can truly respect. If you’re just looking for someone weak and *** to have power over, I am not the one. I am an alpha submissive in every sense of the term, I am independent and strong willed. Despite this, when I am with a Dom I truly respect, I offer a very deep level of devotion and subservience. Subbing is an escape for me, though it takes massive levels of trust and mutual understanding to reach the more free use/cnc side of kink for me. Side note, apparently a lot of people don’t understand that CNC can 100% be nonsexual. CNC is by no means inherently “ravishment” play.
Oh! And if you’re thinking to yourself “well, since I know what kind of Dom she’s looking for, I can just say that’s what I am.” Actions speak louder than words. I am very observant, I will ask questions and carefully assess your integrity based on your answers. As I said, I’m a pretentious bitch. Fuck you though, I have every right to be.
if you still think you may be interested, please understand a few things about me.
1) I am nonmonogamous and always will be. my heart is too big to be owned by one individual. I love love.
2) I’m not necessarily dating romantically, if you’d like to pursue me romantically, become my friend first. I take my time (years) gauging compatibility.
3) NO hookups whatsoever. Not happening. Serious dynamics or friendships only. There will be no benefits without genuine friendship, if you catch my drift.
4) I’m not interested in vanilla people or vanilla sex. Kink is my passion. I am extremely versatile in my roles, but power exchange MUST be present in some way.
5) I am proudly queer, satanic atheist, and socialist. I am not the type to shame anyone for their beliefs, I will NEVER debate you though. No one’s mind gets changed in debates.
6) I am not a stupid woman. While I enjoy *** and misogyny kink, in my vanilla life I am rather sharp and quite observant. If you lie to me, don’t expect me to believe it. I am far from gullible.
7) I put my own aspirations above all else. Don’t expect me to sacrifice any of my personal goals for you.
8) I work 12-14 hour night shifts, I am only available on the weekends as I sleep the entire time I’m home on days that I work. Weekends are also the best time to reach me.
